Community and GrowthPaulist Press, 1989 - 331 pages If you've ever thought about community, whether as a lifestyle or simply as an expression of deeper fellowship with others, this book is essential reading. In the fifteen years since it first appeared in English, it has become the classic text on the subject -- read, dog-eared, borrowed, and discussed.Vanier is not a rosy idealist. That is because his writing is based not on theories, but on a wealth of wisdom gleaned over many years living in community, experiencing difficult days and joyous celebrations, times of struggle and hard-won success, moments of doubt and inspiration. He acknowledges the inevitable little frustrations of a life lived with and for others, but he also helps the reader see that without struggle there is no true growth. |
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Page 4
... feel too insecure , too rootless , unclear as to what they want . They feel helpless and guilty in front of all the pain and the problems . They see no positive way of working towards a better world . Many become apathetic and fall into ...
... feel too insecure , too rootless , unclear as to what they want . They feel helpless and guilty in front of all the pain and the problems . They see no positive way of working towards a better world . Many become apathetic and fall into ...
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... feels it is not wanted or loved . Its vulnerable heart is wounded . And because it is so fragile and weak and cannot cope , it closes itself up fearfully behind barriers to protect itself . Inside this little for- tress the child feels ...
... feels it is not wanted or loved . Its vulnerable heart is wounded . And because it is so fragile and weak and cannot cope , it closes itself up fearfully behind barriers to protect itself . Inside this little for- tress the child feels ...
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... feel called to found sister communities in developing countries . It is as if a community cannot continue to exist in its own culture if it is not linked to similar communities in other cultures . This arises not just from the desire to ...
... feel called to found sister communities in developing countries . It is as if a community cannot continue to exist in its own culture if it is not linked to similar communities in other cultures . This arises not just from the desire to ...
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... feel they have the right of life and death over the child , as if the child in the womb does not exist in its own right . When a child feels it does not belong to anyone , it suffers terrible loneliness and this is manifested in anguish ...
... feel they have the right of life and death over the child , as if the child in the womb does not exist in its own right . When a child feels it does not belong to anyone , it suffers terrible loneliness and this is manifested in anguish ...
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... feeling of loneliness and all the pain are pushed down into the secret recesses of its being , into a sort of tomb ... feel so lonely that they are prepared to sacrifice personal consciousness and growth in order to be part of a group ...
... feeling of loneliness and all the pain are pushed down into the secret recesses of its being , into a sort of tomb ... feel so lonely that they are prepared to sacrifice personal consciousness and growth in order to be part of a group ...
Contents
LXV | 173 |
LXVI | 174 |
LXVII | 177 |
LXVIII | 181 |
LXIX | 182 |
LXX | 183 |
LXXI | 185 |
LXXIII | 189 |
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XV | 47 |
XVI | 49 |
XVII | 50 |
XVIII | 55 |
XIX | 61 |
XX | 64 |
XXI | 66 |
XXII | 68 |
XXIII | 72 |
XXIV | 76 |
XXV | 78 |
XXVI | 79 |
XXVII | 82 |
XXVIII | 84 |
XXIX | 85 |
XXX | 88 |
XXXI | 90 |
XXXII | 93 |
XXXIII | 95 |
XXXIV | 97 |
XXXV | 98 |
XXXVI | 101 |
XXXVII | 104 |
XXXVIII | 108 |
XXXIX | 109 |
XL | 113 |
XLI | 115 |
XLII | 118 |
XLIII | 120 |
XLIV | 126 |
XLV | 128 |
XLVI | 131 |
XLVII | 134 |
XLVIII | 139 |
XLIX | 141 |
L | 142 |
LI | 143 |
LII | 144 |
LIII | 149 |
LIV | 152 |
LV | 155 |
LVII | 157 |
LVIII | 158 |
LIX | 160 |
LX | 161 |
LXI | 162 |
LXII | 165 |
LXIII | 169 |
LXIV | 171 |
LXXIV | 194 |
LXXV | 195 |
LXXVI | 199 |
LXXVII | 203 |
LXXVIII | 205 |
LXXIX | 209 |
LXXX | 212 |
LXXXI | 216 |
LXXXII | 218 |
LXXXIII | 221 |
LXXXIV | 224 |
LXXXV | 227 |
LXXXVI | 229 |
LXXXVII | 231 |
LXXXVIII | 236 |
LXXXIX | 238 |
XC | 240 |
XCI | 247 |
XCII | 249 |
XCIII | 250 |
XCIV | 251 |
XCV | 253 |
XCVI | 254 |
XCVIII | 255 |
C | 256 |
CI | 260 |
CIII | 261 |
CIV | 262 |
CV | 265 |
CVI | 270 |
CVII | 272 |
CVIII | 273 |
CIX | 274 |
CX | 280 |
CXI | 282 |
CXII | 283 |
CXIII | 284 |
CXVI | 288 |
CXVII | 290 |
CXVIII | 297 |
CXIX | 300 |
CXX | 302 |
CXXI | 303 |
CXXII | 304 |
CXXIII | 307 |
CXXV | 313 |
CXXVI | 322 |
CXXVII | 325 |
CXXVIII | 328 |
CXXIX | 329 |
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Common terms and phrases
accept afraid aggression anguish authority beautiful become body bring brothers and sisters Bruno Bettelheim called celebration child Christ Christian community Church commit communion covenant create danger deepen Dietrich Bonhoeffer difficulties discernment discover egoism emotional essential Eucharist everything external faith Father fear feel fidelity forgiveness gift give grow growth handicap healing heart Henri Nouwen Holy Spirit hope human important individual inner freedom insecurity Jean Vanier Jesus leader listen live in community loneliness marriage means meeting Missionaries of Charity Mother Teresa nourishment ourselves Parker Palmer peace person poor poverty pray prayer presence priest prophetic realise recognise reject relationships responsibility role Roman Catholic Church Scott Peck seek share simply someone sometimes spiritual guide suffering Taizé community tensions Thérèse de Lisieux things true truly trust truth unity vision vulnerable weakness welcomed words wound
Popular passages
Page 45 - A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another. By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.
Page 127 - If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother. But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, that every word may be confirmed by the evidence of two or three witnesses.
Page 93 - I have seen the affliction of my people who are in Egypt, and have heard their cry because of their taskmasters; I know their sufferings, 8 and I have come down to deliver them out of the hand of the Egyptians...
Page 34 - Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you.
Page 71 - If you would be perfect, go, sell what you possess and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow me.
Page 301 - Who shall go up for us to heaven, and bring it unto us, that we may hear it, and do it? Neither is it beyond the sea, that thou shouldest say, Who shall go over the sea for us, and bring it unto us, that we may hear it, and do it?
Page 7 - Truly, truly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit.
Page 49 - For as in one body we have many members, and all the members do not have the same function, so we, though many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another.
Page 58 - Now the company of those who believed were of one heart and soul, and no one said that any of the things which he possessed was his own, but they had everything in common.